When my opinion mattered...

I would say that my opinion is always worth taking into consideration. There are times where it matters more. I would say this mainly affects my boyfriend. Since he is always with me or we are doing things together he always has to do things that we agree on. I will say I think I have the upper hand sometimes because I get more of what I want. My best friend come to me for help as well. When they are having boy troubles or family troubles they come to me for advice. I remember one incident when my best friend wanted to break up with her boyfriend and I actually agreed with her. I knew she was unhappy so I told her all my reasonings for why she should move on. I do think she took alot of my opinions to heart. She also knows that I have a very good relationship so it was easy for her to see that I'm doing something right. In the end even though she stayed with him for a few more weeks she actually did choose to leave him and I knew a part of it came from my opinion on the situation.